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A Simpler Life: A guide to greater serenity, ease, and clarity

September 9, 2022  ·  12 sections  ·  3 min read

A Simpler Life: A guide to greater serenity, ease, and clarity

A Simpler Life

Life gets cluttered—closets, calendars, and even our heads. The School of Life’s A Simpler Life is a gentle, practical invitation to clear space—outside and in—so you can notice what matters and let the rest go. It isn’t about austere minimalism; it’s about building a day that feels lighter, kinder, and more intentional.

Simplicity starts with a choice: fewer, better inputs; slower, richer moments. When we stop drowning in excess—stuff, screens, obligations—we reclaim attention for relationships, craft, and small rituals that restore us. The payoff isn’t just tidy shelves; it’s a steadier mind, easier decisions, and a life that fits.


Why this matters in real life

  • Too much noise: Constant pings and options distract us from what we truly value.

  • Hidden fatigue: Clutter (physical and mental) quietly burns energy.

  • Lost meaning: Without focus, even good days blur together.


Three places to simplify—today

1) Your spaces

Clear the surfaces you see most: nightstand, desk, and kitchen counter. Keep what serves your day; remove what nags.

  • Try now (10 minutes): One drawer, one shelf, one small win—stop there.

  • Result: Less visual noise, easier starts, calmer endings.

2) Your inputs

Be choosy with what enters your mind. Shorten the distance between you and the world: more books and walks, fewer feeds and tabs.

  • Try now: Unfollow five noisy accounts; add one nourishing source (a book, podcast, or walking route).

  • Result: Clearer attention, kinder self-talk, better sleep.

3) Your commitments

Trade breadth for depth. Say “yes” to what aligns with your season; say “no” without a speech.

  • Try now: List the week’s top three people or promises that truly matter. Everything else gets a later slot or a polite decline.

  • Result: More presence, fewer resentments, stronger follow-through.


A simple “Simpler Life” playbook

  1. Name your essentials
    Write one sentence: “This season, I’m prioritizing ___, ___, and ___.”

  2. Design your mornings + evenings
    Two small anchors: a device-free first 15 minutes and a gentle last 15 (stretch, read, journal, pray).

  3. Limit the inflow
    One inbox check in the AM, one in the PM. One news scan. Batch errands.

  4. One-in, one-out
    When something new enters your home or calendar, let one thing go.

  5. Keep tools visible, store trophies
    Everyday items get prime real estate; sentimental things get a respectful, contained place.

  6. Sabbath hour (weekly)
    One protected hour with no chores or screens. Sit in the sun, call a friend, make a simple meal.


Gentle rituals for home and heart

  • Bowl by the door: Keys, wallet, phone—same spot, less scramble.

  • Counter reset (5 minutes/night): Clear, wipe, breathe. Tomorrow will feel different.

  • The “three good things” card: One thing you did with care, one kindness received, one small joy noticed.

  • Walking gratitude: On a short walk, name five ordinary details you’re glad exist.

  • Sunday sweep (20 minutes): Refill basics, choose three outfits, and plan three simple dinners.


Small scripts you can borrow

  • When asked to add one more thing:
    “Looks meaningful. I’m at capacity—can we revisit next month?”

  • When you’re tempted to keep ‘just in case’:
    “If I needed it urgently, could I borrow or replace it easily?” (If yes, let it go.)

  • When the phone grabs your morning:
    “Not yet.” (Put it face-down; return after your first anchor ritual.)

  • When a room feels heavy:
    “What can I remove that makes this 10% calmer?”


A two-week starter plan

Days 1–3: Clear three surfaces (nightstand, desk, counter). Add the morning/evening 15-minute anchors.
Days 4–7: One-in, one-out on clothes and apps. Unfollow five accounts; add one nourishing input.
Week 2:

  • Batch your inbox/news checks.

  • Do a Sunday sweep and a Sabbath hour.

  • Say one graceful “no” and one wholehearted “yes.”


How you’ll know it’s working

  • Mornings start quieter; evenings land softer.

  • Fewer misplaced items, fewer late “sorry” texts.

  • You linger longer with people and hobbies that matter.

  • Decisions feel simpler because your essentials are clear.

  • Ordinary days feel a little more yours.


Choosing a simpler life isn’t about perfection. It’s about right-sizing your world so meaning has room to breathe. Start small, keep it kind, and let ease and clarity grow from the inside out.

Author: The School of Life

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