As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to appreciate the benefits of time off more. When I was younger, I enjoyed going on vacation, but it was mainly a chance to unwind and have fun. When my kids were little, it also allowed me to spend quality time with them. Now that I am older and the kids are grown, I’m starting to see the therapeutic benefits of taking a vacation for myself and not always pushing so hard. I’ll never be one of those people who take many long vacations in a year. Taking a week off occasionally is beneficial for my soul, even though it’s not in my nature.
I am fortunate to have enjoyed my work for quite some time now. Since I went out on my own in 2002, I’ve never looked back. Even my pre-business school jobs were enjoyable and educational in their own way. I really can’t remember the last time I was unhappy about going to work on a Monday morning. Now, with the perspective of time, I can see what a blessing that is.
However, everyone needs to clear their head. If you focus too long on something without a break, you start to lose some perspective. I believe that by getting away, doing other things, and reflecting, I always come back stronger and with a fresh perspective. Taking a break makes you appreciate what you do and who you do it with. Maybe a brief absence does make the heart grow fonder.
It’s fascinating to be at the midpoint of life and to witness your country going through an existential crisis. There are very few times when life-and-death issues are so prevalent in one’s life. Being in the wrong place at the wrong time is one such instance. Interacting with someone who may be infected but is unaware of it. Touching the wrong doorknob, etc. Even though I did my best to wear a mask and maintain social distancing, I still had to work and interact with others. The Zoom bubble only worked for so long. I must admit that at times, I have been worried that my actions could potentially harm others, especially those I care about. It’s scary how quickly this new normal has become our reality. Time started to take on a different meaning. Thank goodness for the vaccine. I’m eager for the post-pandemic reality.
I know this is a bit of a meandering post, but it reflects my current state of mind. I feel grateful that I can take some time off and visit a beautiful place. I feel blessed to have the opportunity to do it with people I love. I’ll do my best to avoid working while on vacation. Not always easy, but I’m sure my grandson will have a say on this issue. We all need to remember what life is all about. Every book you’ll ever read on the topic will tell you it’s about forming healthy, loving, and supportive relationships with other people. These same books also recommend doing meaningful work, which aligns with your strengths and talents. Lastly, there’s a lot written about the journey being more important than the destination. I agree, and it’s all about how you spend your time.
I hope you’ve had the opportunity to take some considerable time off this year or have something planned. I hope you’ve used (or will use) this time to reconnect with people you care about. Use the time to rejuvenate yourself. I hope you appreciate the importance of getting off the treadmill. The goal should be connection, relaxation, and enjoyment. If you’re lucky, work will always be there. If you’re even more fortunate, you will be looking forward to it when you return. Embrace the special moments with others. They are precious and limited in the vast scheme of things. Life isn’t just about what you do and how hard you do it. There is much more to it than that. As a wise friend of mine once said, “Start with the ‘Why’ and live in the moment.