Your Life Resources

The life you live is a choice and you should strive to be balanced and happy.  What’s the point of being successful if you can’t enjoy it with the people you care about.  Sometime we back ourselves into unnecessary corners. When  you are working, do your best maximize the value of your time for the benefit of the organization.  When you are at home, be present and focused with your family and friends.  Know the role you are playing in any given situation and do your best.

Blog Posts

What Does Success Really Mean to You?

What Does Success Really Mean to You? Most people think they know what success is—until you ask them to define it. It sounds like a simple question: What does success mean to you?…

Parenting Advice: Give Your Kids Some Breathing Room

Introduction: The New Reality of Parenting Childhood today looks very different than it did a generation or two ago. Between participation trophies, endless youth leagues, and social media highlight reels, kids are feeling…

The Great Energy Divide: Positive Versus Negative People

Every relationship—personal or professional—either lifts you or weighs you down. There’s no neutral. There’s positive energy that expands your perspective, fuels your hope, and deepens your purpose. And then there’s negative energy that…

Gratitude: The Core of Thanksgiving and Leadership

Thanksgiving is more than a holiday—it’s a celebration of gratitude, a virtue that has the power to transform our leadership, relationships, and communities. At its heart, Thanksgiving reminds us of a simple yet…

Forgiveness: The Key to Living a Virtuous Life

Forgiveness is more than a personal virtue—it is a transformative force that can reshape organizations and communities. By fostering an environment of empathy, learning, and growth, forgiveness strengthens relationships, fuels innovation, and enhances…

Mastering the Art of Work-Life Harmony

Balancing life as a small business owner is an ongoing process that requires intentionality and regular reflection. By staying true to your core values and implementing effective strategies for managing your time and…

Look in the Mirror, Not Out the Window

It's not an intricate formula; it's relatively simple, albeit not easy. Instead of looking out the window each morning, wondering what should or could be, ask yourself, "What do I need to do…

58 Life Lessons on my 57th Birthday

I compiled the following list of 58 items, including one for good luck, during a 30-minute period of focused thinking. I didn't intend it to be a comprehensive list, but rather a fun…

Lasting Lessons from My Dad

Sadly, my father passed away this past year (2013). He was 84 and lived a full life. Many times, he commented to me that he couldn't believe he had lived this long. When…

The Importance of Taking Time Off

As I've grown older, I've come to appreciate the benefits of time off more. When I was younger, I enjoyed going on vacation, but it was mainly a chance to unwind and have fun. When my kids…

How Quickly and Randomly Life Can Change

No one is immune to life's unpredictability. We may wake up one day with everything okay, only to end the day with everything in tatters. We may unknowingly experience the symptoms of a…

St. Patrick, My Mom, the Pandemic and You

Previous generations have had to confront more difficult challenges without anywhere near our current scientific or economic advantages. My mom (and dad) lived through The Great Depression and multiple recessions, globally threatening illnesses…

Happy New Year – A Brand New Start!

Every new year starts as a blank slate. I encourage you to be mindful of what you write on it this year. Push yourself to dream bigger, act better, and make a tangible positive difference in…

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays 2020!

wanted to share a Christmas Blessing from the late John O’Donohue this year. His writing continues to inspire and motivate me to become a better version of myself. He makes sense of the…

Happy Thanksgiving 2020!

This year, our Thanksgiving gathering will be a small one—just my wife and me. I am grateful to have her by my side. My guess is that many of you will also be doing…

Start The Week Off On A Good Note

Many years ago, I went through a period where my work wasn't necessarily inspiring. However, I always believed it would eventually get better. Rule number one: If you don’t like your reality, then…

Things Can Unravel Quickly

Things can unravel quickly. This is an unfortunate reality of life. Friendships built over a lifetime, partnerships forged through sustained effort, and families who spent a lifetime loving one another are more fragile…

Recommended Reading

Mindset

If you believe your intelligence or talent is fixed, you spend your energy protecting it. You avoid risk. You hide mistakes. You need to look smart...If you believe you can grow, you do…

Why Can’t We Be Good?

Introduction Why Can’t We Be Good? by Jacob Needleman takes on one of the most uncomfortable but important questions of human life: if we know what is right, why do we so often…

Life Design Workbook

Whether you're at a crossroads in life or seeking to enhance your personal and professional fulfillment, the Life Design Workbook provides practical tools and exercises to help you design a life that is…

Spontaneous Happiness

Work and life pull hard. If you’re not careful, stress, screens, and poor rhythms chip away at your energy and outlook. Spontaneous Happiness lays out small, doable practices that nudge your brain and…

A Calendar of Wisdom

A Calendar of Wisdom Daily ideas to steady your mind, strengthen your character, and lead with purpose. Business moves fast. Character keeps you steady. A Calendar of Wisdom gives you one short reading…

The Archer

Paulo Coelho strips things down to something simple. A young boy seeks out Tetsuya, once the greatest archer in the land. What follows isn’t instruction in archery—it’s instruction in attention, patience, and self-mastery.…

The Rules Of Life

The Rules of Life: A Personal Code for Living a Better, Happier, More Successful Life Richard Templar Most people want a better life. Fewer are willing to live by a standard that actually…

Skin In The Game

Taleb’s central point is clear: People should have something to lose. Not abstractly. Directly. When someone makes decisions that affect others—but carries no real risk themselves—you get bad outcomes. Poor advice. Weak systems.…

The Pursuit of Perfect

Perfectionists fear failure. Optimalists use it. Ben-Shahar is clear: growth requires mistakes. You don’t get better by avoiding them—you get better by learning from them.

Reading Excerpts

12 Rules For Life by Jordan B. Peterson

Foreword “…unchaperoned, and left to our own untutored judgment, we are quick to aim low and worship qualities that are beneath us” “…no matter how different our genes or life experiences may be,…

Happier By Tal Ben-Shahar

Happier by Tal Ben Shahar – Book Excerpts Part 1 and 2 Please click on this link for the Happier Book Summary.   Part 1 (Pages 3-82): What is Happiness?   “Even though…

The Thinking Life by P.M. Forni

Please click on this link for The Thinking Life Book Summary   Introduction: “It is bizarre how many of us have been time-profligate engaging in frivolous searches or retooling our images on social…

The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

1: January – Boost Energy “…research shows, being happy energizes you, and at the same time, having more energy makes it easier for you to engage in activities – like socializing and exercise…

Reading Summaries

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