Leadership Thought #253 – Fight The “Black Cloud” Mentality
Do you find yourself always under a black cloud under the threat of an impending storm?
Everyone goes through periods of adversity. Sometimes, it does feel like you can’t catch a break. It is as if a black cloud decided to appear overhead, dampen your spirits, and weaken your resolve. However, the good news is that storm clouds do pass by, and the sun will reappear. Nobody remains in a rut indefinitely. Positive outcomes will eventually resurface if you persevere and consistently strive to improve each day. It simply follows the law of averages.
Sadly, I have met quite a few people who have claimed the black cloud as their identity. They seem to enjoy wallowing in self-pity and using this as an excuse for why things have not turned out better in their lives. Instead of embracing their role as the architects of their own future, many people defer most of the responsibility to events beyond their control. They look outside of themselves for excuses rather than looking inside for answers.
Henry Ford has a famous quote: “If you think you can do something or you think you can’t, you’re right.” I believe this sums up most of life quite nicely. Self-confidence and self-belief do matter. Your mental attitude and emotional resilience greatly influence your success and happiness. While some of us may face more challenges or begin with more baggage than others, the history of civilization demonstrates that ordinary individuals can accomplish remarkable feats and surmount significant challenges. It may seem easier sometimes to give up or give in, but you must fight these feelings, forge ahead, and persevere. Never embrace failure and unhappiness as your default reality.
The sun WILL come out tomorrow. Even if it is shrouded in a black cloud cover, it is still there and will eventually reappear. Things won’t always go your way. Pain, suffering, disappointment, and loss are a part of life, but so are health, happiness, self-satisfaction, and love. Focus on what’s right in the world and count your blessings. Do your best no matter the circumstances. Lean on others when you need to and gain strength through them. Believe in yourself and never lose faith in your ability to navigate whatever life has in store for you. Fight the black cloud mentality every chance you get.
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