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The Only Way to Combat Darkness is to Bring Light

October 16, 2023

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The only answer to darkness is to bring light.

In the ever-shifting landscape of our modern world, the prevalence of negative energy has cast a shadow over our lives. Everywhere we look, we are bombarded with messages steeped in doom and gloom or crafted from a foundation of fear. Powerful entities and individuals, for reasons best known to them, strive to create rifts and sow discord, striving to pull us apart rather than bring us together. Add to this the escalating mental health issues that are reaching unprecedented levels. Our society, in many ways, resembles a sick patient. Yet, instead of seeking a cure, we seem to be exacerbating the illness.

So, how do we navigate through these murky waters? When faced with negativity, it’s imperative to consider the source. Always question the motivations behind the information or sentiments you encounter. What is the driving force behind their perspective? What is their agenda? Is there money or power at risk? Are they chronically pessimistic, always seeing the glass as half-empty, and seeking converts to their cynicism? Is their life fraught with personal or professional challenges? Do they have mental health issues? Are they deflecting attention from something they would rather you not see? Why are they holding on to something so firmly that only fuels their unhappiness?

Remember this: lifting people up cannot be achieved by keeping them down. Healing cannot occur by aggravating symptoms or casting blame. The solution? Counteract negativity with positivity.  We need to seek a cure.

  1. Focus on Solutions: Instead of dwelling on problems, direct your energies towards finding solutions. Every challenge presents an opportunity for growth and transformation.
  2. Promote Unity: Resist the urge to assign blame or widen divides. Rally people around a shared purpose. Make a difference in your own way and sphere of influence.
  3. Practice Empathy: Before passing judgment, take a moment to walk a mile in someone else’s shoes. Understand their perspective. Often, what seems irrational or incomprehensible becomes clear when we view it through the lens of another’s experiences.
  4. Speak Less, Listen More: Practice active listening. Try not to dominate conversations. Let the other person talk and be interested in what they are saying. In return, they will be more likely to listen to what you say.
  5. Use Unifying Language: Words have power. Use them to build bridges, not walls.
  6. Embody Positivity: Actions speak louder than words. Make a conscious effort to exude positivity in both words and deeds. If you have to, “fake it before you make it.”
  7. Seek Understanding: Before jumping to conclusions, try to understand the underlying factors. Be curious. A little patience can lead to a lot of clarity.


It’s a challenging journey but a necessary one. In a world rife with increasing darkness, it is upon us to be the bearers of light. Every small act, every kind word, and every gesture of understanding brings more positive energy into the world.

Two quotes I will leave you with:

Eleanor Roosevelt, “It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness.”

St. Francis of Assisi, “All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.”