Your Life Will Be Defined by How You Affect Other People
In the grand quest for meaning and purpose in human existence, we overlook the simplest truths of life. One might delve into various philosophies, religions, or even the astrological signs, but the answer to life’s profound question is closer to home, in the everyday interactions we have every day. The true measure of our lives is not in the heights we reach but in the impact we have on those around us.
Every interaction is an exchange of energy—be it positive or negative—and it’s worth asking: Are people drawn to your positive energy? Do they leave feeling uplifted after an encounter with you? Are you a source of empowerment and acknowledgment or just another person who indifferently crosses their path or, worse, makes their journey even more difficult?
Society has instilled in us the importance of prioritizing personal happiness over all else; yet, this pursuit frequently leads to a path of self-centeredness, where the ego holds a dominant position. However, I have witnessed that those who live egocentric existences, focusing solely on their happiness, often find themselves in a paradox of unhappiness. They also see their circle of true friends contract with time.
Instead, imagine starting each day with a simple intention: How can I make a positive difference in someone’s life today? It doesn’t have to be grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s the person who offers a smile, lends an ear, or makes someone feel seen and valued that brings about a needed personal boost. Help people see the good in themselves and others.
We all need to feel that we matter to someone else; otherwise, life can feel rudderless and empty. Sadly, I believe this sentiment is what is causing so much anger and frustration these days. If you feel anonymous and devalued, then acting out may feel like your only option to gain attention. It can also be a gateway to depression.
Media and information sources bombard us with negative messages designed to make us feel inadequate. In addition, many people work for bosses who only find fault and offer criticism. Yet, when we encounter individuals who radiate positivity, who see the potential in us, and who motivate us to uncover our best selves, we can’t help but be drawn to them. They make us feel ‘more than.’ They don’t subtract from our essence; they add to it. They are the ones who encourage us to shine brightly. Are you that type of person?
We live in a complex world, and while there are many difficult questions to consider, being helpful to others shouldn’t be one of them. We are here to make a difference and to leave a lasting positive legacy. That might start with family, extend to friends, and then to a broader circle of influence, perhaps as a parent, a boss, or simply a neighbor.
No matter the stage or role we find ourselves in, the answer remains consistent: be of service, help, and support to others, especially when they need it. In doing so, we not only alter the trajectory of our lives but also redefine the essence of our shared human experience.
It is rarely just about you but almost always about your impact on others.
